Destefano Family Foundation

Private foundation · Grantmaker Rye, NH EIN: 20-7133790

Destefano Family Foundation is a private foundation, based in Rye, NH. IRS filing data is available from 2019 through 2025. As of 2025, the organization holds $2.8M in total assets. In 2025, it awarded 6 grants totaling $180K. Net investment income was $124K.

Destefano Family Foundation at a glance

In short: Destefano Family Foundation gave $180K across 6 grants in 2025 (avg $30K), mostly in New Hampshire. Source: 2025 IRS Form 990-PF.

Annual giving (2025)
$180,000
-29.1% vs 2024
Grants made (2025)
6
+20.0% vs 2024
Average grant
$30,000
-40.9% vs 2024
Median grant
$16,250
Total assets
$2,786,640
-2.1% vs 2024
Primary geography
New Hampshire (56% of itemized 2025 grant dollars)
Latest 990 filing
Form 990-PF, 2025 View filing

Data from IRS Form 990-PF, 2025; updated September 2026.

Who Destefano Family Foundation funds

How this funder distributes its grants

Top Recipients

Top 6 recipients in 2025

Cross Roads House: $100KCross Roads House$100KBig Horn Golf Club Charities: $40KBig Horn Golf Club Charities$40KBig Horn Behind a Miracle (Bam): $23KBig Horn Behind a Miracle(Bam)$23KMatthew Silverman Memorial Foundation: $10KMatthew Silverman MemorialFoundation$10KJoslyn Center: $5KJoslyn Center$5KRead with Me Volunteer Programs: $3KRead with Me VolunteerPrograms$3K

The largest 2025 recipient was Cross Roads House ($100K). Together the top 6 received $180K.

Grant Size Distribution

30 grants across all recorded years

26<$50K1$50–100K3$100–250K$250–500K$500K–1M$1–5M$5M+

The most common grant size was under $50K: 26 grants of 30 (87%).

Geographic Focus

Where this funder awards grants

Grant Distribution by State

5states

Share of 2025 grant dollars across all 6 itemized grants.

Cities

Palm DesertPortsmouthDurhamRancho MirageSyracuseBeverly HillsDoverNewnanPittsburgh

How Destefano Family Foundation gives

  • Giving fell 29% from 2022 to 2025. Method
  • In 2025 it paid out 93% of its IRS minimum distribution (the 5% rule). Foundations have until the end of the next year to meet it. Method

From the foundation's IRS Form 990-PF filings. Methodology.

Giving History

Giving Over Time

Total grant dollars and number of grants per year

$0$100K$200K$300K8 grants2019 7 grants2020 5 grants2021 6 grants2022 8 grants2023 5 grants2024 6 grants2025

From 2019 to 2025, annual grant giving ranged from $60K (2021) to $254K (2022). In 2025 it made 6 grants totaling $180K.

Grants by year

Grant recipients and amounts by year

RecipientPurposeAmount
Cross Roads House Portsmouth, NHTo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$100,000
Big Horn Golf Club Charities Palm Desert, CATo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$40,000
Big Horn Behind a Miracle (Bam) Palm Desert, CATo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$22,500
Matthew Silverman Memorial Foundation Beverly Hills, CATo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$10,000
Joslyn Center Palm Desert, CATo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$5,000
Read with Me Volunteer Programs Palm Desert, CATo Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission.$2,500
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Financial History

Multi-year comparison from IRS filings

Figures from IRS filings, by filing year
Filing yearTotal AssetsRevenueExpensesGrants paidGrantsQualifying DistributionsNet Investment IncomeDistributable Amount
2025$2,786,640$145,610$206,301$180,0006$184,580$123,651$197,836
2024$2,847,515$148,873$276,002$253,8005$256,525$124,612$191,512
2023$2,974,556$64,287$189,767$164,0008$167,348$45,786$167,206
2022$3,100,476$52,389$279,376$254,2506$257,422$35,179$177,897
2021$3,322,673$200,319$102,198$60,0005$61,533$183,018$194,388
2020$3,222,854$1,183,997$171,478$144,5007—$1,033,363$140,473
2019$2,148,810$112,584$160,443$133,0808—$90,024$130,565

Under IRS private-foundation payout rules, Destefano Family Foundation reported a distributable amount of $198K for 2025 — the minimum it must pay out in qualifying distributions.

Leadership & Key People

Officers and directors from IRS filings

Destefano Family Foundation is led by Gary M. Destefano, President on every filing since 2019; none of the 2 officers listed in 2025 report compensation.

Officers on the 2025 filing

  • Gary M. Destefano

    President

    On filings since 2019

    1 hr/week

    No compensation reported

  • Karen J. Destefano

    Vice President & Treasurer

    On filings since 2019

    2 hrs/week

    No compensation reported

Data from IRS Form 990 filings, 2019–2025. "On filings since" is the earliest filing we hold that lists the person; hours are average hours per week as reported.

Frequently asked questions about Destefano Family Foundation

How much does Destefano Family Foundation give each year?

Destefano Family Foundation gave $180K across 6 grants in 2025, according to its 2025 IRS Form 990-PF. In 2024 it gave $254K across 5 grants.

What is Destefano Family Foundation's typical grant size?

Destefano Family Foundation's median grant in 2025 was $16,250, and its average grant was $30,000, across 6 grants on its 2025 IRS Form 990-PF.

Where does Destefano Family Foundation give grants?

Destefano Family Foundation gives mostly in New Hampshire: 56% of the grant dollars itemized on its 2025 IRS Form 990-PF went to recipients there. The next largest state was California (44%). The most frequent recipient cities were Palm Desert, CA (4 grants).

Does Destefano Family Foundation give general operating support?

Not in 2025: none of the 6 grants with a stated purpose on Destefano Family Foundation's 2025 IRS Form 990-PF were described as general or operating support. Recurring purposes include "To Provide Funds to Accomplish Its Mission." (6 grants).

Who are Destefano Family Foundation's largest grantees?

Destefano Family Foundation's largest 2025 grantees include Cross Roads House ($100,000), Big Horn Golf Club Charities ($40,000) and Big Horn Behind a Miracle (Bam) ($22,500), according to its 2025 IRS Form 990-PF. Together they received 90% of its itemized 2025 grant dollars.

How large is Destefano Family Foundation?

Destefano Family Foundation reported $2.8M in total assets on its 2025 IRS Form 990-PF. It paid out $185K in qualifying distributions that year, against a required minimum of $198K (roughly 5% of its investment assets). Falling short in one year is not a violation: foundations have until the end of the next year to meet the minimum.

What is Destefano Family Foundation's EIN?

Destefano Family Foundation's EIN (Employer Identification Number) is 20-7133790. IRS Form 990 filing data is available on this page for 2019–2025.

Data last updated September 2026. Sourced from IRS Form 990-PF filings.

Data update history

(7)

When this profile's IRS filing data changed on Grantable

  1. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2024 (received by the IRS May 14, 2025)
  2. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2025 (received by the IRS May 11, 2026)
  3. Added Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2019 (received by the IRS May 12, 2020)
  4. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2020 (received by the IRS May 7, 2021)
  5. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2021 (received by the IRS May 10, 2022)
  6. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2022 (received by the IRS May 8, 2023)
  7. Updated Form 990-PF for fiscal year 2023 (received by the IRS May 15, 2024)

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